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心情天空6月8日 年轻人少走弯路的10条忠告如何在涉世之初少走弯路,有一个好的开端,开始一番成功的事业?以下是一些先行者积累的10条有益的涉世忠告。好好地遵循、把握这些忠告和建议吧,比起所学的课堂课程来,它毫不逊色!
1. 买个闹钟,以便按时叫醒你。
贪睡和不守时,都将成为你工作和事业上的绊脚石,任何时候都一样。不仅要学会准时,更要学会提前。就如你坐车去某地,沿途的风景很美,你忍不住下车看一看,后来虽然你还是赶到了某地,却不是准时到达。“闹钟”只是一种简单的标志和提示,真正灵活、实用的时间,掌握在每个人的心中。 2. 如果你不喜欢现在的工作,要么辞职不干,要么就闭嘴不言。
初出茅庐,往往眼高手低,心高气傲,大事做不了,小事不愿做。不要养成挑三拣四的习惯。不要雨天烦打伞,不带伞又怕淋雨,处处表现出不满的情绪。记住,不做则已,要做就要做好。 3. 每个人都有孤独的时候。
要学会忍受孤独,这样才会成熟起来。年轻人嘻嘻哈哈、打打闹闹惯了,到了一个陌生的环境,面对形形色色的人和事,一下子不知所措起来,有时连一个可以倾心说话的地方也没有。这时,千万别浮躁,学会静心,学会忍受孤独。在孤独中思考,在思考中成熟,在成熟中升华。不要因为寂寞而乱了方寸,而去做无聊无益的事情,白白浪费了宝贵的时间。 4. 走运时要做好倒霉的准备。
有一天,一只狐狸走到一个葡萄园外,看见里面水灵灵的葡萄垂涎欲滴。可是外面有栅栏挡着,无法进去。于是它一狠心绝食三日,减肥之后,终于钻进葡萄园内饱餐一顿。当它心满意足地想离开葡萄园时,发觉自己吃得太饱,怎么也钻不出栅栏了。相信任何人都不愿做这样的狐狸。退路同样重要。饱带干粮,晴带雨伞,点滴积累,水到渠成。有的东西今天似乎一文不值,但有朝一日也许就会身价百倍。 5. 不要像玻璃那样脆弱。
有的人眼睛总盯着自己,所以长不高看不远;总是喜欢怨天尤人,也使别人无比厌烦。没有苦中苦,哪来甜中甜?不要像玻璃那样脆弱,而应像水晶一样透明,太阳一样辉煌,腊梅一样坚强。既然睁开眼睛享受风的清凉,就不要埋怨风中细小的沙粒。 6. 管住自己的嘴巴。
不要谈论自己,更不要议论别人。谈论自己往往会自大虚伪,在名不副实中失去自己。议论别人往往陷入鸡毛蒜皮的是非口舌中纠缠不清。每天下班后和你的那些同事朋友喝酒聊天可不是件好事,因为,这中间往往会把议论同事、朋友当做话题。背后议论人总是不好的,尤其是议论别人的短处,这些会降低你的人格。 7. 机会从不会“失掉”,你失掉了,自有别人会得到。
不要凡事在天,守株待兔,更不要寄希望于“机会”。机会只不过是相对于充分准备而又善于创造机会的人而言的。也许,你正为失去一个机会而懊悔、埋怨的时候,机会正被你对面那个同样的“倒霉鬼”给抓住了。没有机会,就要创造机会,有了机会,就要巧妙地抓住。 8. 若电话老是不响,你该打出去。
很多时候,电话会给你带来意想不到的收获,它不是花瓶,仅仅成为一种摆设。交了新朋友,别忘了老朋友,朋友多了路好走。交际的一大诀窍就是主动。好的人缘好的口碑,往往助你的事业更上一个台阶。 9. 千万不要因为自己已经到了结婚年龄而草率结婚。
想结婚,就要找一个能和你心心相印、相辅相携的伴侣。不要因为放纵和游戏而恋爱,不要因为恋爱而影响工作和事业,更不要因一桩草率而失败的婚姻而使人生受阻。感情用事往往会因小失大。 10. 写出你一生要做的事情,把单子放在皮夹里,经常拿出来看。 人生要有目标,要有计划,要有提醒,要有紧迫感。一个又一个小目标串起来,就成了你一生的大目标。生活富足了,环境改善了,不要忘了皮夹里那张看似薄薄的单子。 3月16日 头疼 头疼,早上醒来居然眼睛也是疼的。。。。这几天感冒一直都没好,原来准备就这样抗过去的,现在实在坚持不住了,老了,不比以前了。。。
好想家。。有爸爸妈妈陪在身边,有可口的饭菜,而不象在外面,每天下班以后吃饭总是最大的问题。
好想有自己的小家,sweet home!也许生病的时候这种感觉财更加强烈吧! 2月24日 The Point of No ReturnPassarino - go away!
For the trap is set and waits for its prey . . . You have come here in pursuit of
your deepest urge,in pursuit of that wish,which till now has been silent,silent . . . I have brought you,that our passions
may fuse and merge in your mind you've already succumbed to me dropped all defences completely succumbed to me now you are here with me: no second thoughts, you've decided,decided . . . Past the point of no return no
backward glances:the games we've played till now are at an end . . . Past all thought of "if" or "when"
no use resisting:abandon thought, and let the dream descend . . . What raging fire shall flood the soul? What rich desire unlocks its door? What sweet seduction lies before us . . .? Past the point of no return,the final
threshold what warm,unspoken secrets will we learn?Beyond the point of no return . . . You have brought me to that moment where words run dry,to that moment where speech disappears into silence, silence . . . I have come here,hardly knowing
the reason why . . .In my mind, I've already imagined our bodies entwining defenceless and silent and now I am here with you: no second thoughts,I've decided, decided . . . Past the point of no return no
going back now:our passion-play has now, at last,begun . . . Past all thought of right or wrong one final question:how long should we two wait, before we're one . . .? When will the blood begin to race the sleeping bud burst into bloom? When will the flames,at last, consume us . . .? Past the point of no return the final threshold the bridge is crossed, so stand and watch it burn . . .We've passed the point of no return . . . Say you'll share with me one love, one lifetime . . .Lead me, save me from my solitude . . . Say you want me with you, here beside you . . . Anywhere you go let me go too Christine that's all I ask of . . . All I ASK OF YOU!昨天晚上突然想到听下这首歌,还有一年就要毕业了。
以后上班就不能每天带着CD,塞着耳塞,来欣赏音乐了。
No more talk of darkness,
forget these wide-eyed fears; I'm here, nothing can harm you, my words will warm and calm you. Let me be your freedom, let daylight dry your tears; I'm here, with you, beside you, to guard you and to guide you. Say you'll love me every waking moment;
turn my head with talk of summertime. Say you need me with you now and always; promise me that all you say is true, that's all I ask of you. Let me be your shelter,
let me be your light; you're safe, no one will find you, your fears are far behind you. All I want is freedom,
a world with no more night; and you, always beside me, to hold me and to hide me. Then say you'll share with me one love, one lifetime;
let me lead you from you solitude. Say you want me with you, here beside you, anywhere you go, let me go too, Christine, that's all I ask of you. Say you'll share with me one love, one lifetime.
Say the word and I will follow you. Share each day with me, each night, each morning. Say you love me... You know I do.
Love me, that's all I ask of you.
Anyway you love me too,love me
that's all I ask of you 这首all i ask of u是电影“歌剧魅影”中的选段,
很喜欢里面的歌词,男主角再里面娓娓的向Christine
说着情话,宽慰她,就象里面说的一样,
anywhere you go, let me go too,
Christine, that's all I ask of you. 真的很感人,慢慢欣赏吧!
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